NOW Fix Your Relationship
Stop Being at the Mercy of Your Codependent Brain
This book is for WOMEN who are trying WAY TOO HARD to make their relationships work.
We have been told, for the past 40 years, that codependence is a disease or a relationship problem that doesn’t really have a “cure.” The truth is that codependence is a developmental delay, and we can grow and develop from where we left off.
The grassroots emergence of codependence in the 80s was groundbreaking in terms of exposing predictable patterns of relationship behavior that emerge as a result of being brought up in dysfunctional family systems. However, we’ve become stuck in this early work, keeping us from understanding the developmental mechanics of the mind and how it’s possible to get stuck in self-protective patterns.
We have all been operating under the misconception that codependency is due to alcoholic parents, trauma, abuse, and other failures of parents to nurture and keep their children safe. While these occurrences stop development and get the brain stuck in self-protective patterns of behavior, the brain can pick up development AT ANY TIME once the threat is no longer present. It isn’t something to recover from or to be cured.
Because codependence is misunderstood and its treatment tends to be hit and miss, it is still as common in the general population as it was when it was first discovered.
Most people are stuck in the codependent stage of development, and you CAN do something about it. First, you have to forget everything you have learned about what codependence is and take charge of your own growth and development. Knowing you are stuck in a Codependent Relationship Position provides you with the opportunity to resume your development and achieve your potential.
The NOW Fix Your Relationship eBook explains why you are codependent, what happened, and what the fix is. You’ll understand why you keep having the same disappointing and dysfunctional relationships. You’ll learn about the Relationship Position your brain is stuck in and why. You’ll also find out how it’s actually your Relationship Code that decides how you behave, not you. And, you’ll get the NOW Fix Your Relationship 10-Step Process with exercises, tools and practices to make sure you change your brain.
*While this book is for women, men can also use this information to understand how they behave in relationships.