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The Shadow Side of the Thinking Function
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How the Thinking Function Becomes Psychological Armor in ESTJs, ENTJs, INTPs, and ISTPs It’s not unusual for those who prefer the Thinking function to analyze…
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The Shadow Side of the Feeling Function
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We’ve all been there: swallowing your own opinion to keep the peace at dinner or taking on extra projects at work because you feel personally…
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How Jungian Functions (MBTI) and Striving Styles Emotional Needs Shape Your Adaptive Persona
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This insightful article explains that while Attachment Theory highlights why we look for safety, it’s our natural cognitive wiring (MBTI / Striving Styles) that determines…
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Stop Paying the Price for Your Relationship Rules!
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Most people never stop to ask what their unconscious relationship rules are costing them.
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When Caring Isn’t Really Caring
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One of the most difficult conversations I have with clients is helping them recognize that what they have always believed to be caring may not…
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When Vulnerability Becomes a Shield
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ave you noticed how often the word “vulnerable” has entered our everyday conversations? “I can’t have that conversation. It makes me feel too vulnerable.” “I can’t come…
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ARE THE KIDS RUNNING THE CANDY STORE?
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Have you ever had this happen? An employee walked into their manager’s office and said, “I’m going to Portugal for three months this summer with…
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Who’s Showing Up in Your Relationships?
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Do you know which version of you most often shows up in your relationships? It’s a simple question, but it isn’t an easy one to…
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Undeveloped Relationship Capacities Leave Us Vulnerable to Narcissists
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You may not realize you’re being pulled back into an old relationship pattern at first. In the beginning, a narcissistic partner can feel exciting, certain,…
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Narcissism, Codependency, and the Unwritten Rules Behind Relationship Conflict
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Have you ever been drawn to someone who adored you instantly, only to find it became one-sided, with you expected to build them up while…